tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5716464676430798966.post4468562095988890950..comments2023-10-03T06:01:22.776-04:00Comments on The aftermath of rainbows and unicorns: No reallySamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11342453970164354596noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5716464676430798966.post-76728672484588641692013-02-07T00:04:03.083-05:002013-02-07T00:04:03.083-05:00Anon 9:27 - this isn't a sitcom, where everyon...Anon 9:27 - this isn't a sitcom, where everyone apologizes and makes up in the span of 26 minutes. Obviously Sam has already tried to explain her reasons for things. And demanding an apology from a 15 year old is a surefire way to not get a genuine one. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5716464676430798966.post-19117000961848888622013-02-06T21:27:04.922-05:002013-02-06T21:27:04.922-05:00Sam,
I think that you need to tell your sisters ...Sam, <br /><br />I think that you need to tell your sisters that you tried to do your best in taking care of them, and that you probably made some mistakes along the way. You should apologize for any mistakes that you made, and then ask them to forgive you. They should of course forgive you!<br /><br />They also need to apologize for their mistakes and then you should forgive them.<br /><br />I think that if you all apologize and forgive each other, then you can get past this and make things right.<br /><br />Even though it's not fair, it's your job to end this fight and fix things. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5716464676430798966.post-11389636826540363892013-02-06T15:06:10.663-05:002013-02-06T15:06:10.663-05:00Would it help if you had your sister's read yo...Would it help if you had your sister's read your blog back when you were going through all the problems with your Aunt? A lot of the things you were all going through are right there in print. Maybe they would realize what all you were going through or it would jog their memory...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5716464676430798966.post-26271578067624038832013-02-06T11:42:12.344-05:002013-02-06T11:42:12.344-05:00You have to do the hard things because you've ...You have to do the hard things because you've proven yourself capable of doing hard things. It's one of the sucky things about being a grownup.Saranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5716464676430798966.post-25096123777029899822013-02-06T08:15:15.972-05:002013-02-06T08:15:15.972-05:006:41 presents what might be a good solution. I do...6:41 presents what might be a good solution. I don't see why your relationship with Josh has to be another (ultimately unappreciated) sacrifice you make.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5716464676430798966.post-22216319461962838122013-02-06T07:27:24.936-05:002013-02-06T07:27:24.936-05:00Yeah, I think an objective party is a great idea. ...Yeah, I think an objective party is a great idea. Kizzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01957878512519527975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5716464676430798966.post-48182928253385652932013-02-06T06:41:34.792-05:002013-02-06T06:41:34.792-05:00Could you all see someone together who could help ...Could you all see someone together who could help mediate? It does seem like you need a neutral party to help your sisters listen and see your side of things. This would also take the burden off of you to fix things - it's about all of you hearing where the others are coming from and moving forward. Would your old shrink be able to volunteer for this, or recommend someone who could? There are people out there who do group therapy or mediation sessions like this - I'm sure Josh's mom would know of someone too. ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13261457831717882357noreply@blogger.com