I had shrinking tonight and Craig and I were talking about how it is for my sisters to spend time with Josh without me being there. Craig asked how I think it affects Danielle and Alex to spend the weekend with Josh.
Alex loves it. She loves the attention, loves being fussed over. She tried to sleep in Josh's room. But the thing with Alex is that she loves attention from anyone. I think Al knows she's supposed to be into boys, but really isn't yet. Alex just loves Josh because he's nice to her and I like him.
Danielle is happy with the attention but embarrassed that she likes it. Josh even said something to me - that he felt like he was making her uncomfortable when I was at work. Then he asked if I was mad at him. Like it was his fault or something. I get Dani, and it's just kind of weird. I can't think of anything I, or either of them can do to make it better.
Craig said that he would feel more comfortable if I did not leave Dani and Alex with Josh when I worked. I told him it's too hard to make everyone comfortable.
I just want to point out that Aunt Elaine never asked where we were. All three of us left Friday and didn't come back until Sunday night and she never called or asked after we came back where we'd been.
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I get that concern, and it is hard to make everyone perfectly comfortable, maybe with a little luck it'll work itself out on his own...and Elaine does suck...so bad.
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