A bunch of us were joking around at school and this guy I'm friends with went to push me. As he stepped forward to get close enough to push me he stepped on my foot, and that's how I broke my toe. For like the first week it hurt so much by the end of school that I almost cried (okay, did cry twice) at having to go to work straight afterwards. After I'd get home from work I'd sit on the kitchen counter and soak my foot in the sink in cold water. So hurty. It's getting better a little bit now.
My friend Yulia has had a huge crush on this guy Manny for like six years. I don't get it. He's not smart or funny or hot or anything impressive. He is just totally average. He's not even that nice. The biggest thing he's got going is that he's friends with Hector, who is totally hot and popular.
Manny has been going out with this girl Lila for ... almost four years I think. She is this very sweet, very unhealthily skinny girl who makes high honor roll all the time. There are rumors he beats her up and tells her she's fat. Lila is in two of my smart-people classes. She is very quiet but any time I've talked to her she's been nice.
Like a month ago Yulia started hooking up with Manny. Working too many hours really cuts into my gossip-time and I just found this out over the weekend. Yulia told me today that Manny talked her into doing anal last week. I am grossed out even typing that. She said she didn't want to but she really likes him and doesn't want to stop doing all the other stuff so she did it. Big mistake but I asked what it feels like. Yulia said it's a really weird sensation of feeling like you're shitting backwards and it's way painful. So then I had to ask if she did it more than once.
This is what I don't get - Yulia said yes. Why would you do something that hurts? I mean, over and over, like after you tried it and discovered it hurts. I think I lost some respect for Yulia over this one.
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so, appearenly nobody has to say anything about this? is it the word "anal" that keeps people from commenting?
i don't have anything very nice to say about that yulia and manny thing.
about him: if he isn't interesting if something feels as good for her as it does for him, he has no business fucking her in the first place.
about her: if she's doing something she doesn't like just to keep this guy, i'm not seeing a nice future for her with manny.
yes, stuff like that kinda makes you lose respect for people. there are things you can compromise on, little "favors" you can do each other, or you may actually enjoy something just because you see it turns the other on so much. but it shouldn't involve doing anything you actually dislike. and if you ever get curious and tempted to try this - use buckets of lubricant. no shit. it's essential.
oh, and sorry about my mindlessness today.
i hope your foot gets better soon!
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