I got a note today from Josh saying he wants to talk with me. He found me after school and said he misses me and wants to get back together. I was like, but all the same reasons you broke up with me are still there. Nothing's changed.
And he said he knows, but he sort of considered going out with another girl (the one I was accused of beating the shit out of but didn't) and realized he likes me way better, and that for the last month he's walked around missing me even though when he decided to break up with me he thought he'd be happier.
I don't want to go out with him again if he's just going to dump me later when he gets tired of me not having time and money to do stuff. I didn't tell Josh I miss him too, but I do. I said I'll think about it.
I'm kind of done thinking, but don't know what to think. What do you think?
3 comments:
Go for it, but talk about the money thing and the sisters thing up front. Have him realize that these are just fundamental things for you and he has to accept them.
I'm happy for you. Seems like he's a good guy from your earlier posts.
aaaargh, the dreaded ex-boyfriend decision. i have had to make that two or three times in my life and i always opted give him a second chance if he can convince you that he was wrong leaving you and why he thinks he made that wrong decision, but never a third. anyone who makes the same wrong decision twice either doesn't learn from his mistakes or is playing with your heart.
from what you have written about josh earlier i get the impression that he's a serious guy and wouldn't hurt you on purpose. i think it's a good sign he says he thought he'd be better without you but found out he was wrong. that's a good start. if you have made clear that there are things you can't change and he accepts that, i'd second jason - go for it!
It is a tough call. I would ask him to be really honest with himself and with you (if he hasn't already) about why he broke up with you the first time. If he has some concern that isn't going to change, it may not be worth putting time into the relationship again.
I do agree that he had seemed like a pretty good guy too. He may be worth the second chance.
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